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Relationships matter.
Let us help you take care of yours.

Therapy, coaching and training for the relationships that carry your life — at home with your partner, your children and yourself, and at work with the people you lead. LGBTQ+ and BIPOC affirming, because we are who we serve.

Couples · Kids & Parents · Individuals LGBTQ+ & BIPOC affirming Accepting new clients Out-of-network claims filed for you
What sets us apart

We are who we serve.

As a richly diverse team who know what it's like to feel "othered," we create spaces where people can show up fully, feel understood, and build stronger connections — without having to leave important parts of themselves outside the room.

We believe that shared vulnerability nurtures our lives and relationships by deeply connecting us. With it, we deliver the care you deserve — because of who you are, not despite it.

Meet the RHQ Family
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Our approach

Evidence-based methods, with culture in the room

Couples work here draws on Emotionally Focused Therapy and the Gottman Method; work with children and families is CBT-based. For individuals, we draw on the same relational lens, adapting an integrative approach to your specific goals. And because none of it happens in a vacuum, race, queerness, faith, family and migration stories all belong in the room.

70–75%of couples move from distress to recovery with EFT in published clinical trials
60%of anxious children responded to CBT alone in the NIMH-funded CAMS trial (Walkup et al., NEJM, 2008)

Break the cycle, not each other

We map the negative loop you're both stuck in — pursue, withdraw, repeat — and help you step out of it together.

Repair after rupture

Infidelity, resentment, distance. EFT gives a structured path to rebuild trust and reach for each other again.

Care that gets all of you

No explaining your identity before the work begins. We are who we serve — and proud of it.

Who we serve

Inclusive of all — especially those who've felt "othered"

We proudly serve people seeking relationships where they feel seen, accepted, and connected. Inclusive of all, yet especially for LGBTQ+ folks and People of Color.

LGBTQ+ couples Couples of color Interracial couples Non-monogamous partners Engaged & premarital Healing after infidelity Parents & families
Making care real

The process, really simple

1

Tell us a bit about you

Who you are, how you prefer to be addressed, and what you value, need, and hope for.

2

Choose your care experience

Pick a trusted professional — or let us match you with the best fit for your needs, budget, and schedule.

3

Give consent to get started

Nothing begins without your ok. We answer every question, so your journey begins with clarity.

What folks are saying
"Bukky is a rare energy and talent as a therapist. Her passion is to support her clients to live their most emotionally expressive, relationally connected, joyous lives."
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Rates & insurance

What it costs, stated plainly

We are out-of-network with every plan. Where your plan accepts out-of-network claims and you would like us to, we file on your behalf and the reimbursement is assigned to you. Otherwise we issue superbills on request.

See the full fee schedule
From $180per session · by clinician & session length

We can file for youout-of-network claims, where your plan allows
Begin here

Here, courage leads to connection.

Book a consultation. We will learn a bit about you, answer your questions, and match you with the practitioner who fits — no pressure, no jargon.

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